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Member Since: 5/4/2009

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• Frenemy Fight! Team Blair or Team Serena? (10/28/2009)

  The writers may be in love with Serena, but Blair will always be the fan favorite no matter what!!!!!
  

• A Beautiful, Beautiful B (10/22/2009)

  Geez...do I have the world's biggest girl crush on her!!!! Flawless as always!
  

• Gossip Girl Set Photos: A Glamorous Jessica (8/26/2009)

  Her makeup doesn't help either... it's either the eyes OR the lips makeup people!
  

44 Forum Posts

• Dair fans, why do you prefer them over Chair? (10/13/2009)

  And I, like you, have something that irks me about chair fans.

  I meant to say that I have something that irks me about dair fans...just like you have something that irks you about chair fans.  Couldn't explain myself better before...

• Dair fans, why do you prefer them over Chair? (10/13/2009)

  i'm flattered and offended at the same time that you think i actually think that. i'm not a superhero though if i were, all of your worlds would be in serious trouble.

  I only mentioned that miracle worker reference b/c from ur comment before, I perceived that you were saying i was hopeless, and you couldnt be my saviour

  i noticed that in every episode so far, there's a dair moment. so i'm sure in about six more episodes what you just said there will be proven wrong. i don't even need to comment on it further than that.

  then time will tell if the writers decide to shut dair fans up, and give them their couple. The way they did with chair.

  well i can't speak for all dair fans but i can speak for myself. i think the reason why it's a staple on the argument board is because whenever we talk about dair and how or why it could happen. we're met with a bunch of 'OMFG CHAIR IS THE PERFECT COUPLE' 'IT IS THE PERFECT SHIP' 'IT'S SO GREAT' a lot of the reasons people were turned off from it was because it's not great and not perfect. yet that's the main arguments chair have when it comes to the thought of blair with anyone. it's a pointless argument. agree to disagree but t hat's just how it is. some of them just refuse to think about b with another guy. and the others who are more open minded admit that they love chair and prefer them and put them first, but also know that b and d or b and anyone else is a possibility and it may or may not be so bad. so tell me, what kind are you?

  Well, I can assure you that if I personalLy didnt think chair wasnt appealing, than I wouldnt ship it.  I think the fact that I gave my reasons, despite you agreeing or disagreeing with them. why I don't like dair at this point shows that its not because its dan and not chuck.  Like I stated before, if they're done correctly, and in a way that appeals to me, than I wont have a trouble shipping dair.  But right now, theyre not appealing, but chair is. 

  And I, like you, have something that irks me about chair fans.  While yours is that some claim chair is perfect when theyre not, (which is not what I said in any of my posts) and mine is that for some reason, i've come to think that it isnt for love of dan and blair together, but whatever will take her away from chuck is the answer to a better coupling.   Perhaps the way both sides defend their ship is what may irk you and I, but at least for my part, I see that's the fundamental problem in the whole chair vs. dair fights, and not the ships themselves. Which is why it will be an ongoing debate, and although it is fun while it lasts, it is kinda pointless b/c neither side can win in a face-off between opinions.  Perhaps late, but at least I said it. Which is why I only commented on the dair v. chair debate until now, and maybe it'll be the only time i will.

• Dair fans, why do you prefer them over Chair? (10/13/2009)

  depends on what you define as strategy. if they were trying to piss off part of the fanbase, delude people and make things as irrelevant as possible, yeah then i guess it did. however, it was pointless and weak. and all it did was prove to all of the great fanfiction writers out there who hated what they saw too that only about a million great thinkers without degrees could pull out better quality than the actual writers. good job!

  I never said it was a nice or smart form of strategy, merely that it was one...it served its purpose for the sake of the show.  And while I know that it drove some of the fanbase away, there were ones loyal to the show or the ship, or whatever it was that kept them still glued to the tv...and most of the chair fans were strung along until the end to finally hear those words. It obviously wasnt meant to steer away fans, but a show loses viewers throughout their lifetime on the air, for whatever reasons, so I dont really care that those fans left, that was their choice, and you and I obviously decided to stay, albeit for reasons foreign to each other, so the lost viewers are irrelevant imo b/c if dair does happen, i wont bail on gg, and u obviously havent done so yet either, even with chair on your screen.

  i'll just pretend that i didn't read this. because there's no way you can put 'healthy' and 'relationship' in terms of dan and blair but yet attempt to explain how chuck and blair were just the perfect healthy happy couple. cause news flash CHUCK AND BLAIR CIRCA SEASON TWO WAS NOT HEALTHY! anyway moving on...

  I'm not the one arguing that Blair needs to be in a healthy relationship because she's a girl, and I'm a girl, therefore I think I'm a feminist or whatnot. I just don't understand how you can criticize chair for not being healthy(disregard the reasons I stated above, its just what SOME dair fans allude to when defending their ship, but I didnt mean that they were YOUR reasons), and yet see how dair would be.

   

  if you mean dan and georgina season three however, then yeah they are PERFECT references. because dan knew the deal, and he knew all about how wild G could be. yet he did it anyway. if that's not in someway shape or form of declaring just how far D has come along in three years i don't know what  is. but i guess the chair side affecting your brain refuses to see certain things. and well i do love to post my opinions, i'm not a miracle worker so we'll keep it at that. go find your own annie sullivan.

  I guess that side has deeply affected my brain since I still think he was just horny and stupid for hooking up with g s3.  And I never looked for a miracle worker, nor did I appoint you to be mine.  And I wont apologize that my sign language does not make sense to your spoken one, and unless I directed my post to you before you decided to comment on it, then just speak ur opinions while I speak mine, but don't flatter yourself in thinking that I need your logic and perception to save me from a doomed ship; don't strain yourself. 

  but i will say again, if he's coming around to georgina then i definitely don't see how dan and blair couldn't be a possibility.

   Like I mentioned, I dont doubt that dan could possibly "come around" to blair, i just dont see it happening vice versa.

  i don't see how judgement comes into the issue. yeah he's judgemental but so is she. unlike chuck and blair, i don't expect nor want either of them to 'change' for the other person. i just happen to think that the two just as they are, could be pretty compatiable.

  When they're judgmental of EACH OTHER, than yeah, change is inevitable.  It will mean blair will now accept everything she hates now, and the other way around.

  crazier things have happened on this show. so i don't see how dan and blair can't happen. i can't help it that there's a bunch of people who fear that it could and too closeminded to even think of the possiblities.

  I can see the writers doing it, and I dont fear it.  I admitted before that them having a hook-up wouldnt be disastrous to my eyes, I just don't think they'd be a good couple.  I'm not closeminded b/c I dont agree with your opinions, and if it is done right, then I cant say that I will NEVER like dair, b/c I for one, do not hate dan like I have been accused.  But if the day comes that I find myself actually intrigued by dair, than it would be by MY logic and perceptions, not yours or any other dair shippers.  But at this point, I dont see dair being a couple I would actually like, and I stated my reasons, and responded to your comments directed at me. The same thing you did, but I guess you're not fearful or closeminded for hating chuck  and hate that chair is the biggest ship and has taken over most of the fanbase and critics, that you are so repulsed by the idea of joining in bc you'd hate behaving like robots (which is what many dair shippers elicit imo).